Does God Oppose Marriage Equality?

Excellent piece in the new Newsweek: I’ve been arguing backward and forward that the religionista case against allowing civil marriage equality should have nothing to do with religious doctrine. Doesn’t matter — the forces for traditional values comes back with an argument many find persuasive: God wouldn’t approve. That supposed gospel truth keeps many a decent person from giving the idea of marriage equality more than a thought. Well, Lisa Miller is not so sure that the God Squad has it right. The reporter presents results from her own research and asserts that, according to the Bible itself, God has no problem with gays getting married:

The argument goes something like this statement, which the Rev. Richard A. Hunter, a United Methodist minister, gave to the Atlanta Journal-Constitution in June: “The Bible and Jesus define marriage as between one man and one woman. The church cannot condone or bless same-sex marriages because this stands in opposition to Scripture and our tradition.”

To which there are two obvious responses: First, while the Bible and Jesus say many important things about love and family, neither explicitly defines marriage as between one man and one woman. And second, as the examples above illustrate, no sensible modern person wants marriage—theirs or anyone else’s —to look in its particulars anything like what the Bible describes. “Marriage” in America refers to two separate things, a religious institution and a civil one, though it is most often enacted as a messy conflation of the two. As a civil institution, marriage offers practical benefits to both partners: contractual rights having to do with taxes; insurance; the care and custody of children; visitation rights; and inheritance. As a religious institution, marriage offers something else: a commitment of both partners before God to love, honor and cherish each other—in sickness and in health, for richer and poorer—in accordance with God’s will. In a religious marriage, two people promise to take care of each other, profoundly, the way they believe God cares for them. Biblical literalists will disagree, but the Bible is a living document, powerful for more than 2,000 years because its truths speak to us even as we change through history. In that light, Scripture gives us no good reason why gays and lesbians should not be (civilly and religiously) married—and a number of excellent reasons why they should.

One response to “Does God Oppose Marriage Equality?

  1. Ms. Miller makes a good argument.

    I also think that there is significant emotional/psychological work that has to be done in order for more people to really hear the argument in favor of equal rights.

    Homosexuality is not like a skin color – you can’t keep it out of your neighborhood even with discriminatory “restrictive covenants.” The odds are very high that everyone in this country has someone in their close circle or their family who is gay.

    So I think we need to really push a national dialog, so that people become comfortable talking and thinking about this reality. This comfort is an important step that may lead people to think more rationally.

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